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Rights of Women seek experiences of child contact & domestic violence »Rights of Women seek experiences of child contact & domestic violence Rights of Women is currently working on a research project with the Child and Women's Abuse Studies Unit (CWASU) at London Metropolitan University to explore women's experiences of the family justice system and domestic violence. They would like to interview women who have experienced domestic violence and have gone through, or are currently going through, child contact proceedings in London. If you are interested in talking to to them anonymously please contact Katherine at katherine@row.org.uk (mailto:katherine@row.org.uk) or on 020 7251 6575. Tuesday, 08 May 2012 09:19
Calling all members. Our next Annual AGM and Get-together is coming up fast, so don't forget to confirm your place » LATEST NEWS:Calling all members.Our next Annual AGM and Get-together is coming up fast, so don't forget to confirm your place now! For further information and to confirm attendance contact enquiries@matchmothers.org (mailto:enquiries@matchmothers) Date: Saturday June 16, 11am to 3pm Venue: The Mad Bishop and Bear pub which is above the food court in Paddington Station, London On the day: Refreshments (tea, coffee, juice) will be available on the day, courtesy of MATCH but we do ask for a donation (minimum of £3) to help towards a light lunch. This an opportunity for members to get together, meet other mums apart from their children, relax, share their stories (if you want to), and share advice and support.This year one of our members, a colour therapist, will be on hand to offer individual advice which can boost esteem and help us look our best. We look forward to seeing you!  Friday, 04 May 2012 10:15
Are you a Mum who lost custody because you are a working Mum? »Are you a Mum who lost custody because you are a working Mum? Grazia Magazine would like to speak with Mum's who have lost custody because they are a working Mum. Please call Caroline Benjamin - Freelance Journalist - 07766 956 636 * Please note that we have guidelines available for those wishing to talk to the media. Members can view the Forum for more details (#1286) Monday, 23 April 2012 22:32
Media Request - Custody Battle - Share your story? »Caroline Scott from the Sunday Times magazine is looking for mothers who are willing to share their story* about a custody battle that was lost to an ex- husband. The article will highlight the mothers dilema and its unfairness. If you are interested, please contact caroline.scott@sunday-times.co.uk (mailto:caroline.scott@sunday-times.co.uk)* Please note that we have guidelines available for those wishing to talk to the media. Members can view the Forum for more details (http://matchmothers.org/index.php?option=com_kunena&func=view&catid=4&id=1286&Itemid=38#1286) Monday, 23 April 2012 22:13
Beginners - McKenzie Friend Training Course 15 September 2012 - Places limited »Beginners - McKenzie Friend Training Course 15 September 2012 - Places limitedLearn from Simon Walland, Lawyer and McKenzie Friend, how to be an effective McKenzie Friend and assist people in court. What Is A McKenzie Friend? The Court will allow a litigant in person, someone who has no Solicitor or Barrister assisting them at a hearing, to have the assistance of a McKenzie Friend. There are certain rules which govern what they can, and cannot do, but essentially their role is to assist with note taking, offer support and guidance, and to help the litigant to deal with the hearing effectively. They are of limited value if they are unsure of procedure, do not understand the law related to the case they are helping in, and have their own overriding views which they are trying to impose on the litigant. The ideal McKenzie Friend is one that understands the purpose of the hearing, what the court expects of the litigant, and can offer more than simply a sympathetic shoulder to cry on. Different litigants require different skills to assist them, be it calm reassurance, legal knowledge, procedural awareness, or someone to act as a buffer between them and the other party. The Course Priced at £120 for a days instruction in law and the role of McKenzie friends, it represents incredible value for money. 20% of the cost will be donated to the charity of your choice. To be held on Saturday 15th September In A Central London Location. How Can This Course Help You? The purpose of the course is to explain what the average litigant requires for a range of hearings. It will enable you to discuss possible outcomes, likely scenarios, and advise the litigant how to deal with their case, and often more importantly, what they should avoid doing in their own case. http://www.mckenziefriendtraining.co.uk/ (http://www.mckenziefriendtraining.co.uk/)  Monday, 23 April 2012 22:07
06.02.12 - The Government published their response on the Family Justice Review »06.02.12 - The Government published their response on the Family Justice Review. A statement summarising key points from this report is included below and focuses on four key principles: Shared parenting for the best interests of the child Speeding up care and adoption cases Simplifying the family justice system Driving culture change The reports (http://www.justice.gov.uk/publications/policy/moj/family-justice-review-response.htm) can be accessed via the following links: The Government Response to the Family Justice Review: A Guide for Children and Young People (https://www.education.gov.uk/publications/standard/publicationDetail/Page1/DFE-00003-2012) Some of the key changes include: •        The Government has supported the establishment of child arrangements order to replace the provision for residence and contact orders in the Children Act 1989.•        The Government will begin to use the term ‘Dispute Resolution Services’ to replace alternative dispute resolution with immediate effect•        The need for grandparents to apply for leave of the court before making an application for contact is to remain. Media stories of interest are highlighted below which summarise some of the changes proposed by the Government. Telegraph Online 04 Feb 12Our fathers are still being failed by the law (http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/9060851/Our-fathers-are-still-being-failed-by-the-law.html)The new Government working party to address fathers' rights is long overdue.Guardian Online 06 Feb 12Ken Clarke reveals plans to give divorced fathers more rights (http://www.guardian.co.uk/law/2012/feb/06/ken-clarke-divorced-fathers-rights?newsfeed=true)Justice secretary says overhaul of family justice system will put emphasis on children's need for relationship with both parents A working group involving five ministers will review the 1989 Children's Act. They are the education ministers Tim Loughton and Sarah Teather, the justice minister Jonathan Djanogly, the equalities minister Lynne Featherstone, and Maria Miller, the work and pensions minister.Daily Mail Online 06 Feb 12Grandparents will get key role in family splits: Shake-up to ensure they keep in touch with youngsters (http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2096967/Grandparents-key-role-family-splits-Shake-ensure-touch-youngsters.html?ito=feeds-newsxml)Family Law Week 06 Feb 12Children should benefit from seeing both parents after separation, says Department for Education (http://www.familylawweek.co.uk/site.aspx?i=ed95441) Family Law Week 06 Feb 12The Government's Response to the Family Justice Review is published (http://www.familylawweek.co.uk/site.aspx?i=ed95488) Bar Council and FLBA urge Government to take a ‘considered and practical approach to reforming family law’These proposed changes are certainly welcomed and the hope is that they will genuinely benefit children and improve the support to parents and extended family to better cope with the fallout from family breakdown.  From now on though actions will speak louder than words. Monday, 13 February 2012 09:51
Anonymous survey on why families separate... »http://fb.me/1gNKYbFxt. (http://fb.me/1gNKYbFxt.) The Centre for Separated FamiliesCoppergate House | 16 Brune Street | London E1 7NJwww.separatedfamilies.org.uk (v) Thursday, 22 December 2011 11:06
Child Maintenance Options - Call Centre - Read all... »Our Co-Chairs visited the Child Maintenance Options call centre. Read all about it in our April Newsletter. Friday, 25 February 2011 10:20

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